Sexuality

How can I tell my parents I am gay?
Tell a friend or someone you trust first, so that they can be with you when you tell your parents, or write a letter. See www.llgs.org.uk for further advice.

I have been having feelings for someone of the same sex. Does this mean I am gay?
It is natural to be attracted to the same sex sometimes. If these feelings continue you may be gay or bisexual. Try not to label yourself until you are sure. Talk to your parents, a friend or youth worker if you are worried.

I feel like I am the wrong gender
This must be a difficult and confusing time for you. You could try talking to someone you trust about your feelings or get advice from a young persons clinic.

I’m worried my friend might be gay
There’s no need to worry, being gay is perfectly natural. Maybe talk to your friend about how he/she feels. If he/she is gay, they may be confused and might need to talk.

What does it mean to be gay?
Being gay or homosexual means that you are attracted to someone of the same sex as yourself. This is perfectly natural, and is nothing to be ashamed of.

What does it mean to be lesbian?
A lesbian is a female who is attracted to other females. This is perfectly natural, and is nothing to be ashamed of. See www.llgs.org.uk for more info.

How do I come out?
Take your time and make sure you’re comfortable with your sexuality. You don’t have to tell anyone until you’re ready. You could tell a friend you trust first.